Sunday, March 29, 2015

The Beginning of Becoming Debt Free!

About 6 weeks ago, Ryan and I decided to tackle our debt.  The short story behind this decision was a conversation with some friends a few months earlier and their desire to get out of debt.  They recommended the book The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey.  I had heard of Dave Ramsey before and put the idea of reading the book on the back burner.  Fast forward about 6 weeks later and Ryan and I were discussing money problems again.  And that's basically when we decided it was time to take control of our finances instead of letting our finances control us.

I never thought we had a debt problem.  We've never had credit card debt, ever.  We only have our student loans, 1 car payment, and the home equity line of credit.  I assumed most of the debt we carried was "acceptable" debt.  However, my perspective was turned upside down after reading the book. 

Ryan and I sat down mid-February and had a great and peaceful conversation regarding our finances.  We refocused our budget and found some opportunities to put money into our "debt snowball." It was really exciting to see that with some focus, or "gazelle intensity" as Ramsey calls it, we will debt free (except our house) much sooner than we ever thought possible.

Our goals are as follows:
CarMax - pay off by March 2015
Sallie Mae - pay off by June 2015
Line of Credit - pay off by April 2016
Citibank - pay off by October 2016
Aspire Resources - pay off by November 2018

Why are we doing this?  Basically we got sick and tired of being sick and tired (about finances).  I was often stressed and frustrated that we were living paycheck to paycheck.  We shouldn't have been strapped the way we were.  I hated discussing finances with Ryan because it was always a tense conversation and we never seemed to make any progress.  Another reason is because the Bible is explicit in that God does not like debt.  We are trying to get out of debt so that we are not enslaved to our debtors, but rather, we can give more freely to the advance of the Kindgom. 

In the years to come, there will be much sacrifice to attain our goal of becoming debt free.  However, we are willing to make these sacrifices in the short term so that we can live the way we want in the future.  As Ramsey says, "If you live like no one else, later you can live like no one else."

We've  closed our credit card accounts and cut up the credit cards.  It's real now!
Bye Bye Credit Cards!!!

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

The Kids - February 2015

Now that Rylan has passed the one year mark and all of my notetaking doesn't go into her calendar and babybook, she'll be added to my recap of the previous month.  I have to say, this month was a little rough on the notetaking, but oh well. I'm trying to keep up with my busy kiddos!

Reagan:
  • Imaginative play continues to develop (mostly train/car related things)
  • Only interested in "Minnie's 5 Minute Stories" after Kyleigh received it for Valentine's day (literally, it's the only book he wants to read)
  • Very kind to his sisters, but can also be bossy
Kyleigh:
  • Very polite ("Mommy, please don't do that" or "Reagan, please stop")
  • Miss independent!  Wants to dress herself, buckle herself in the car seat, put shoes on...anything that is remotely possible, she wants to do it on her own
  • Says "bye bye" to her pee and poop every time she flushes the toilet
  • Says "that's my perfect color" when referring to her favorite color
Rylan:
  • At beginning of month, she was taking 2-3 steps, but not trying to walk on her own.  By the end of the month, she took at least 6-8 steps and is more confident in trying to walk
  • Standing well on her own
  • Walks quickly while she holds onto something
  • Has her tongue out all the time (toward her left cheek)
  • Drooling a lot, but no additional teeth (still 6)
  • Loves to open and close things (fireplace door, drawers on coffee table, and books are her favorites)
  • Adjusting fairly well to whole milk
  • Officially weaned as of February 26 (no more before bedtime feedings)
  • Knows when she doesn't want something - she'll push it away
  • VERY good eater - watches food go from plate to mouth if she doesn't have any food.  Eats almost anything we give her, but occasionally will throw food on the ground